Is It Hard To Be Available?

Being single means that you don’t have to answer to anyone

Being single means that you can talk to anyone you choose to

Being single means that you don’t have to consider another persons feelings

Being single means that you can dress slutty and no dude will try to stop you (lol)

Being single means that you can have a one night stand and it’s not cheating

Being single means that you can be picky

Being single means that you are unique and (in most cases) desirable

Is being single hard?! The concept of it is not hard.. you can basically do whatever you want without considering another person.  However, actually being single can get a little lonesome.. but that is why we date.. why we keep one on speed dial.. why we hang out with our friends..

Lonesome also gives way to lowering standards, drunken dials to exes, fwb (friends with benefits), one night stands (and other out of control acts of desperation).. these are negative sides to being lonesome that don’t happen to everyone and have more to do with self-control than anything else..

Anywho.. I believe that being single enables us to bring positivity into our lives.  When you are alone you are able to learn yourself, what makes you happy and what you won’t deal with — thus being able to express this to the next suitor and weed out the unworthy..

When you are single you can make decisions based on what will make you the happiest.. have you ever noticed how many of the most successful people are either single or didn’t get married until after they’d established a fair amount of success?? (like Diddy for example) This also means that your money is your money!!

I don’t think that being single is hard if you make the most of your “alone time”.. what do you guys think!?

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