SR // Aint No Call Like A Booty Call

black-couple-embraceI know Im not the only single gal in the world that done got booty called once or twice.. It happens..

This is how I feel about them.. GO FOR IT.. if you can handle it..

Now .. there are a ton of “types” of sexual relationships.. if you google it.. but if you ask me.. there’s one kind.. SEXUAL.. duh! But for the sake of writing.. Im going to talk about how I feel about each.. in seperate posts.. So for 1: The Booty Call

So What is a Booty Call?!?!

It’s when party A calls/texts/bbms/or even twitter dm’s party b for a sexual fiesta.. Many times booty calls are not “yo baby, you tryna come through so I can hit?”.. more often you’ll receive this request: “why don’t you come over and chill with me.. watch a movie”.. BOY BYE!!

If you have not been able to see through this.. babygirl.. that’s a booty call.. and if you haven’t received it yet.. then there is your warning..

The booty call will then be followed up by the actual meeting.. some men will spend a few minutes to an hour talking or watching said movie to get you comfortable and not make you feel like a hoe.. but you know it’s coming.. he’s going to start the “feeling you up game”.. or the “kissing you until he’s somehow on top of you game”.. or whatever other get you open game he can think of.. and then.. if you have no self-control or are just open to it.. he just smashed that!

*I know.. I am putting it all on the men.. maybe the next post I’ll put it on the ladies.. pause.. to be fair*

After the sex.. you are to leave.. maybe not immediately.. but staying until morning usually constitutes an advanced version of sexual relationship (i.e. FWB)


How do I feel about BC’s?!

I believe that a person should get it how they live.. if you want to have no strings attached sex with someone, then why not?

Of course there are precautions you should take:

1. ALWAYS protect yourself.. you may be able to see herpes but you can’t see HIV
2. Ask questions.. even if it’s already happened. You have to know some things like: have they been tested? when? results? It never hurts to ask
3. Make sure that you are able to handle a booty call.. which brings me to:

How does one know if they should involved themselves in any kind of sexual relationship?

For one, if you are not single.. then you clearly shouldn’t be having sex with anyone but your mate.. if you are.. youse a nasty.. cheatin bastid..

People who get involved in SR’s should be able to seperate their hearts and their “private parts”.. if having sex makes you fall in love.. then don’t get into and SR with someone

If you want to be in a relationship.. it will not.. I repeat.. WILL NOT.. evolve from a BC.. This is purely sexual.. it is for instant gratification and then take you ass home until you’re called back.. party A will not fall in love with you (and even if they did, the relationship is already f’d up!)

Who should get involved in SR’s:

carefree people
people with no feelings
people who are disease free
people who are single (duh)
people who don’t regret their decisions
people who like to “blame it”

Who shouldn’t get involved:

people who have a S.O.
people who will wake up the next morning regretting their decisions
people who do not have control over their emotions
people who equate love with sex
people who are delusional
and most importantly: people who can’t f*ck!!!

If you are an adult and you decide that you want to have sex with a person.. and only sex.. then do you.. but beware of consequences.. and if you can’t handle it.. stay yo ass at home!!

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